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I Climax too Soon During Sex
I Climax too Soon During Sex
Master the art of intercourse and understand how self-control in the bedroom can lead to you and your partner having the ultimate climax.
New York,
NY,
United States
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25/03/2011
Climaxing too soon happens to young men, middle-aged men and mature men. It happens to those who are new to the art of intercourse, and it happens to those who have years of experience. In fact, climaxing too soon is a common affliction that many men don’t discuss because they not only find it awkward, they also feel that it erodes their personal confidence and makes them feel inferior.
Now, before we move on it is important to clarify that climaxing too soon, in most cases, is not an illness. No, it is more a matter of self-control and understanding how the body functions and performs. Therefore, it becomes more of an issue of self-control and mastering the art of intercourse rather than finding a cure.
The Causes of Climaxing too Soon
Many men believe that sensitivity is the main reason for early ejaculation. Some even put it down to wearing a condom for so long that when they enter a serious relationship they find it difficult to control their urges because they can now feel so much more than they used to. However, the truth of the matter is not related to sensitivity. No, in most cases, it is a matter of mind over ejaculation when in the bedroom.
The first question that many men ask is, ‘what is considered long enough when having sex?’ Now, before answering, think about the question. Is there a correct answer, or could it be said that time should not be a consideration when in the bedroom?
Many men think that time is of the essence when making love, and that they need to be masters of endurance and have athletic performance. But is this what mastering the art of intercourse all about? Sexual intercourse should be mutually rewarding for lovers, as in a give and take situation. Therefore, the key to avoiding early ejaculation is not thinking in terms of time but in terms of enjoyment. Forget performance and how long sexual intercourse takes. Instead, think pleasure. Take the pressure off so that sexual intercourse becomes gratifying rather than a test of capabilities.
Symptoms of Climaxing too Soon
Apart from the obvious, which is early ejaculation within a minute or two of penetration, the other signs of climaxing too soon are as follows:
1. It is difficult to control or delay ejaculation during penetration.
2. The early ejaculator experiences feelings of frustration, stress and anxiety over performance.
3. Negative feelings cause sexual tension between partners and sexual intimacy is no longer fun or enjoyable.
4. A happy, fulfilling sex life has changed to one that is now associated with early ejaculation.
Treatment for Climaxing too Soon
The best cure for early ejaculation for those who are sexually experienced is to get back to basics. Learn how to enjoy sexual intercourse all over again. Leave the anxiety at the door when entering the bedroom so that feelings of inadequacy don’t manifest themselves and result in tension.
For those who are learning the art of intercourse it is important to learn self-control and master mind over ejaculation from the beginning. Get to know the human body and how it responds to stimulus better. Use more foreplay and less penetration; don’t be in such a hurry.
Mind over ejaculation and the art of intercourse is about playing in the bedroom, having fun, and controlling the urge. Be flirtatious. Tickle each other’s fancy and learn what really turns one another on and makes for more excitement. Get the pulse racing then wind back the action so that longevity gradually increases.
Try manual stimulation and oral sex when penetration becomes too intense. Make climaxing gradual by being inventive and experimenting in the bedroom. This will increase confidence and eventually allow the mutual satisfaction to return. Make sure all clocks are turn off or are out of sight during sex of any kind. This is not a timed event. This is about learning to enjoy those moments in life that count.
Caring for and knowing one’s body is an essential aspect of gaining control over premature climaxing. Utilize a vitamin-and mineral-rich penis specific crème (health professionals often recommend Man1 Man Oil) to boost confidence and improve penis well being. Caring for penis health is the most important step you can take to reduce or eliminate early ejaculation.
About:
For additional information on most common penis health issues, tips on improving penis sensitivity and what to do to maintain a healthy penis, visit: http://www.man1health.com/. John Dugan writes about men's health issues and is an ongoing contributing writer at ManlHealth.com.
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John Dugan writes about men's health issues and is an on-going contributing author to Manl Health at: http://www.man1health.com.
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